Are You Holding Your Own Business Back?
TL;DR:
Corporate construction executive-turned-SME growth expert Nicola Anderson explains why when you're scaling, ambition isn't enough. If you're serious about it, there are brave decisions to be made, both personally and structurally. Discover how to protect your health and wellbeing, your business and your relationships as you reshape your inner and outer reality. Sometimes the key to progress is knowing when to stop, so you can build the capacity you need to grow.
Full Show Notes:
Are you the person holding your business back? How would you know, and what can you do about it?
In this episode, we talk to Nicola Anderson, founder of Capacity to Grow, about SME growth strategies that work. In her journey from a high-end corporate role in construction to consultant for ambitious founders, she's developed a keen eye for when a leader is heading for burnout. And she has an ingenious approach for dealing with it.
So if you're the hub that all decisions (and questions) pass through, but you long to spend more time with your family and friends, now's the time to pause and tune in to the conversation.
Discover:
• Why the freedom some people give up their financial security for gradually disappears — until they're left wondering why they left paid employment for entrepreneurship in the first place. Don't worry, you can get it back again; find out how.
• Why it's normal to feel frustrated, and why many founders find themselves in this position. It's not because you've done something wrong, but it is a signal that things have to change.
• The reasons why it's not just about growth. To stay the same, something has to give — and it shouldn't be your health.
• The practical framework designed to get you out of the day-to-day grind, and thinking (and acting) strategically again.
• The difference between relationships in a corporate role and the deep connections you need when you're a business owner.
• Why your job descriptions might be stalling your hiring successes — founders attract people just like them in the beginning, but this mentality doesn't necessarily drive the business forward.
• Why the structure that worked yesterday won't work today, and how the bolt-on people process many companies use leads to problems down the line.
• What's really behind a founder's reluctance to let go, and how to recognise these things in yourself.
• The new reasons why many people choose to step back from their business — it's not all about the exit strategy anymore.
• The one thing you should do right now if you're close to burnout — or risk losing everything.
As usual, host Phil Rose wraps by asking Nicola what she'd tell her younger self, and it's just what everyone in business needs to hear right now:
• Be reassured, you can do this.
• Build your network by reaching out and making real connections.
• Learn from others (listening to podcasts is a particularly good way of doing this).
• Remain open-minded.
• Stay curious in business and the wider world around you.
• Don't be afraid.
“When you're earning your own salary, it makes you do things that perhaps make you feel a bit uncomfortable — but the more you do them, the more comfortable they become.”
There's a key message here for everyone, regardless of where you are on your journey.
For Sparkers (founders starting out): your energy matters. It's hard work at the beginning, and everything relies on you. If you had to step back for personal or health reasons, could others pick up the slack, or would it all collapse? Who's in your team?
For Scalers (next-stage entrepreneurs): don't go too fast. If it's all about winning work and signing off projects without a strategy in place, cash flow may come back around and bite you — if overwork doesn't first.
For Sustainers (those who want to protect and embed what they've achieved): it doesn't have to be all about you anymore. Release the trust issues holding you back by uncoupling your identity from the business, but at a pace that makes sense to you. What do you want your legacy to be?
It's a great episode, packed with solid, down-to-earth but fresh and inspirational SME growth strategies that work. Please like and share so that other business owners just like you can benefit — and of course, drop us a message; we love feedback.
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More about Nicola
Nicola Anderson is the founder of Capacity to Grow, a business growth and recruitment partner for founder-led businesses. After 37 years in business — more than 25 of them in senior commercial and operational leadership roles across construction and the built environment — she now helps ambitious founders solve the team, leadership, recruitment and structural challenges that keep them stuck in the day-to-day. She's developed a particular eye for spotting when a leader is heading for burnout, and an ingenious, practical framework for dealing with it.
We're here for founders at any stage of the journey, whether starting out, stepping up or embedding in. Always people-focused, we're experts in SME growth strategies that work with purpose at the core.
• Follow Nicola on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/nandersonnotts/
• Find out more about Capacity to Grow: https://capacitytogrow.com/
• Take the Growth Calculator test: https://capacitytogrow.com/calculate
Key nuggets to listen out for:
“You can be on a sun lounger without your laptop but you're never switched off in your head.”
“It's life away from work that starts to suffer, not the business that keeps growing. You miss the family holiday, or you go and can't switch off… These moments add up.”
“There's no point in building a business you don't enjoy.”
“You can rush someone in to do a job, and all you're doing is a sticky plaster because maybe they're fixing the immediate need. Three to six months down the line the task is sorted, systems and processes are in place, but then you have an extra person and more decisions to make.”
“I'm not good with details… so if I'm recruiting for a financial director, for example, I'm not looking for someone like me.”
“Is the structure you have today the one you need to get to where you want to go?”
“There are lots of dynamics why a founder would not want their team to be dependent on them anymore. They either want growth or freedom.”
Resources:
Marshall Goldsmith – What Got You Here Won't Get You There
Daniel Priestley – Lifestyle Business Playbook: How to Have Fun, Freedom and Fulfilment With Your Own Business
Contribution Compass – team energy profiling tool Nicola uses with clients (contributioncompass.com)
Growth Calculator – Nicola's free 3-minute diagnostic tool for founders (capacitytogrow.com/calculate)
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